Can men receive alimony?

Massachusetts has an Equal Rights Amendment so the law is gender neutral in the sense that requires the courts treat people equally without bias based on gender. This means that men, as well as women, can be eligible to receive alimony. Typically, alimony is paid by the primary provider for the family. This means that if the wife was the major income earner during the marriage, she could pay the husband alimony. However, many factors are considered when considering an alimony claim and it should be noted that alimony is not awarded automatically.

Would mediation work for me?

Divorce mediation can minimize both the cost and level of acrimony in a divorce or post-divorce case if used properly. Another benefit is the ability to creatively draft an agreement that fits your needs. Are you and your spouse (or ex-spouse) on a level playing field? If so, meaning that neither of you is likely to use mediation as a tool to dominate the process, mediation could be for you. Ideally, your mediator will be an experienced attorney with mediation training. Also, mediation does not negate the need for each of you to have independent representation, if only to review the agreement resulting from mediation to ensure that your best interests have been served.

Moving Children Out of Massachusetts After Divorce

Massachusetts has a statute that prohibits parents from permanently moving their children out of the Commonwealth after divorce except with permission of the other parent or the Court; this is called “removal” in the Court system. Often, the legal process includes the appointment of a Guardian ad Litem to evaluate and make recommendations to the judge about whether a child (or children) should be permitted to move. Factors considered include not only the child’s wellbeing and relationship with both parents but also whether, and how, moving would be advantageous to the moving parent.

Pre-Marital Agreements

For certain couples, a pre-marital agreement may be useful as a tool to prevent family disputes and/or divorce related issues in the future. For example, a person remarrying may wish to preserve his or her home for the children of a first marriage; a young person planning marriage may have no wealth of their own but may wish to protect family wealth in the event of a death or divorce. Massachusetts law does recognize and enforce pre-marital agreements; however, careful drafting is the key to ensuring that your goals are addressed and to satisfying the Court’s requirements.

Abuse prevention orders

Massachusetts has a statute that authorizes the courts to protect someone who has been abused or threatened with abuse from a family member or household member. Abuse is defined as physical harm, being placed in fear of imminent serious physical harm, or being forced to engage involuntarily in sexual relations. The abused and abuser must be family or household members, the definition of which includes people who have been in a “substantive dating relationship,” people that “are or were related by blood or marriage,” and people who have a child in common regardless of whether they have ever been married to each other or lived together. A violation of an abuse prevention order is considered a crime. A 2012 amendment to the statute added protection for domestic animals; this change in the law made a lot of sense, because many abusers harm household pets, or threaten to abuse the pet, and use the presence of the animal to keep the abused person from seeking assistance. If the abuse occurs when the courts are closed, which often is the case, the local police can assist by obtaining an order from the emergency judge on call, which is always available. While rational people typically comply with court orders, an abuse prevention order will not stop someone who is irrational or truly intent on harming another person, so it is always wise to seek counsel and take all steps to protect both family and pets.

Would mediation work for me?

Divorce mediation can minimize both the cost and level of acrimony in a divorce or post-divorce case if used properly. Another benefit is the ability to creatively draft an agreement that fits your needs. Are you and your spouse (or ex-spouse) on a level playing field? If so, meaning that neither of you is likely to use mediation as a tool to dominate the process, mediation could be for you. Ideally, your mediator will be an experienced attorney with mediation training. Also, mediation does not negate the need for each of you to have independent representation, if only to review the agreement resulting from mediation to ensure that your best interests have been served.

Can men recieve alimony?

Massachusetts has an Equal Rights Amendment so the law is gender neutral in the sense that requires the courts treat people equally without bias based on gender. This means that men, as well as w omen, can be eligible to receive alimony. Typically, alimony is paid by the primary provider for the family. This means that if the wife was the major income earner during the marriage, she could pay the husband alimony. However, many factors are considered when considering an alimony claim and it should be noted that alimony is not awarded automatically.

Can my spouse force me to leave the house?

The sheer fact that divorce is pending does not mean that either party can be forced to leave the marital home howevver, there are certain circumstances where …

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